Intombazana yavuthela umfana kuba engakwazi ukumanga okanye ukujola. Useyintombi nto. Ngoko umama ulungile - intombi kufuneka incedise umnakwabo ukuba abe yindoda. Kwaye umama ebengayi kumnqwenelela nto imbi. Ngethamsanqa umntwana unabazali abahambele phambili ngolo hlobo.
Abatsho ukuba amantombazana asemaphandleni aligazi ngobisi into engekho. Umoya omtsha kunye nokutya okuphilayo kubavumela ukuba bakhule amabele amakhulu kwaye batyebe amaesile amakhulu, anomdla, njengoko sibona. Masiphume phandle!