Abafazi abaninzi benza okungakumbi kunoko xa bebodwa. Kodwa imigaqo equlunqiweyo ayibavumeli ukuba baphumle kunye neqabane. Akunjalo ngaphandle kwesizathu sokuba bathi, ukuba umfazi ohlakaniphile unalo entloko, isidenge sinayo emlonyeni wakhe. Ndiyawazi amadoda awakhaba ngawo omane loo nkululeko.
Yintoni enokuba mnandi kunesiqhekeza sikamama womhlobo osenyongweni. Umfo wamkhotha ukuba akhanye ngolwimi lwakhe. Kwaye ke, ekhwela phezu kwakhe, umbonisa ukuba ngubani umphathi endlwini. Ividiyo elula, kodwa evuselela inkanuko.